FOR ME, IT'S A MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION..... PLEASE HELP!!!

yes , to check opened position state continuously, you can know the time position closeed as soon as possible !

Attach this script to any chart on demo account and open and close an orders (including pending orders).

 
//+------------------------------------------------------------------+
//|                                                 OrdersAlerts.mq4 |
//|                      Copyright © 2007, MetaQuotes Software Corp. |
//|                                        https://www.metaquotes.net/ru/ |
//+------------------------------------------------------------------+
#property copyright "Copyright © 2007, MetaQuotes Software Corp."
#property link      "https://www.metaquotes.net/ru/"
 
 
//+------------------------------------------------------------------+
//|                                                                  |
//+------------------------------------------------------------------+
bool CheckSummChanged(int &ControlSumm)
   {
   bool res;
   int currSumm;
//----
   for(int i=0;i<OrdersTotal();i++)
      {
      if (OrderSelect(i,SELECT_BY_POS,MODE_TRADES)) currSumm+=(OrderType()+1)*OrderTicket();
      }
//----
   if (currSumm!=ControlSumm) 
      {
      ControlSumm=currSumm;
      res=true;
      }
   return(res);   
   }
//+------------------------------------------------------------------+
//| script program start function                                    |
//+------------------------------------------------------------------+
int start()
  {
  int prevcheckSumm;
//----
   while (!IsStopped())
      {
      if (CheckSummChanged(prevcheckSumm)) Alert("Orders are changed!");
      Sleep(1000);
      }   
//----
   return(0);
  }
//+------------------------------------------------------------------+